Ryan Turcotte ([info]shunny) wrote,
@ 2009-02-26 00:50:00
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http://www.enotalone.com/article/2445.html

I'm just going to turn this blog into the "Ryan Broke Up With His First Girlfriend And Needs To Vent A Ton Blog".

"Never break up with someone within two weeks of a major holiday or his/her birthday. Make that a month for Valentine's Day and Christmas. There's no faster entry to the Bitch/Bastard Hall of Fame than permanently destroying the holidays for your soon-to-be-ex. It's just not nice, and you don't want that what-goes-around-comes-around thing biting you in the ass when your turn as the dumpee rolls back around." - http://www.enotalone.com/article/2528.html

I currently have a list of : "If you feel yourself starting to idealize your ex, and feel the desire to call him or her, sit down immediately and make a list of all the things about your ex that really annoyed you - the more humorous, the better."

But, it's probably a little overkill for even a friends-only post because half of it is about sex. Oh wait, I just thought about another one....about sex.


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[info]shunny
2009-02-26 02:54 pm UTC (link)
Thanks. It does help and I appreciate your comments and wisdom, I'll read anything anyone writes.

Some of the psuedo-psychology I've read has helped and some I can tell are probably nor great ideas.

You're probably mostly right about the ideas list. Especially since it's natural when thinking of bad things, to think of the good things too. That doesn't help.

The one thing that I've read that I have a problem, given I'm at college, is that a lot of things say "don't talk to your ex". There's a whole article whose main premise is don't talk to your ex for a week.

Unfortunately, I am going to end up seeing her and talking to her and seeing friends and yadda yadda, so I'm not sure how to manage that.

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